I used to think that if you raised your child right, he would know where the lines were.
I was sitting outside our little rental in Mesa when I found out how wrong I could be.
The coffee in my hand had gone lukewarm.
The sun was already bright enough to make me squint, and somewhere beyond the row of park models, a man was trying to start an engine that didn't want to cooperate.
It was an ordinary Wednesday.
Then my phone rang.
I saw Vern's name on the screen.
Vern lived across the street from our house back home. He was seventy-five, a careful man who didn't enjoy bothering people, especially people who were a long way from home.
If Vern called us while we were wintering in Arizona, he had a reason.
I answered.
"Gordon, I need to tell you something about your house."
I sat up a little straighter.
"What is it?"
"There's a man staying in your basement."
For a moment, I thought I'd heard him wrong.
I looked toward the parking area, where our tan Toyota sat under a thin layer of dust.
"What man?"
"Somebody I don't recognize. He's been coming and going."
I waited for Vern to explain that it was a friend of Brett's or somebody who had stopped by to fix something.
He didn't.
"Your son's girlfriend moved in around Christmas," he said. "Now her brother's living downstairs."
I put the coffee on the concrete beside my chair.
"Her brother?"
"That's what I understand."
Vern had more to tell me.
He'd spoken with the young man at Casey's, the convenience store where people in our town went for coffee, fuel, and the kind of conversation that traveled farther than anyone intended.
The man had told Vern that he was paying Brett six hundred dollars every month to live in our basement.
Six hundred.
I repeated the amount in my head, as if changing the number might make the situation easier to understand.
"You're sure that's what he said?"
"That's the amount he gave me."
Vern wasn't the sort of person to embellish a story. If anything, he left out details.
I thanked him.
He told me he'd wanted us to hear it from someone who knew us.
Then we said goodbye.
I stayed where I was, staring at the little patch of concrete between my shoes.
The coffee had left a brown ring on the ground.
I remember that better than I remember the next few minutes.
Brett was thirty-six years old.
Our only child.
He wasn't a teenager who'd made a foolish decision while we were away for the weekend. He was a grown man who knew exactly whose house he was living in.
Or so I'd believed.
Ardis was at the swimming pool with a book she'd borrowed from the park's lending shelf.
I could see the blue cover through the fence.
She had been looking forward to this winter for months. We'd spent years talking about escaping the cold for a little while, and now we had finally done it.
Our rental wasn't fancy.
It had a small kitchen, two narrow bedrooms, and a front step barely wide enough for a chair.
But the weather was warm, the mornings were quiet, and we didn't have to shovel snow.
We had planned to stay until Mother's Day.
That had been the agreement.
Brett would keep an eye on our place while we were gone.
He didn't have to pay us rent.
He didn't have to mow anything or take care of a yard buried under snow.
He only needed to keep the pipes from freezing when the temperature dropped and check that the furnace was running.
That was it.
We had left him a key and trusted him to do those two things.
I leaned back against the side of the rental.
I tried to imagine the basement.
The old shelves.
The workbench.
The narrow window near the ceiling.
There was a bathroom down there, but we'd never considered it a separate living space. It was part of our house, a place for storing things and doing the jobs that couldn't be done at the kitchen table.
Now somebody was sleeping there.
Somebody who was paying our son for the privilege.
I felt something settle in my stomach.
It wasn't anger yet.
It was the feeling you get when you realize a conversation you thought you'd already had is still waiting for you somewhere.
Ardis returned a little later with her towel over one shoulder and her book tucked under her arm.
She looked at me before she reached the step.
"What's happened?"
I had known her long enough to understand that she wasn't asking about the weather.
I told her Vern had called.
I told her about Brett's girlfriend.
Then I told her about the brother and the money.
Ardis lowered herself onto the chair beside mine.
She didn't ask me to repeat the amount.
She had heard it the first time.
For a while, neither of us spoke.
A couple walked past our rental carrying beach towels. They were discussing where to have lunch.
Ardis watched them disappear around the corner.
"Does Brett know we're supposed to be paying for this house ourselves?" she asked.
I knew what she meant.
We had spent years working for the money that bought our home. We had paid the mortgage, replaced the roof, fixed the furnace, and kept the place standing through winters that seemed determined to pull it apart.
Brett had never been asked to contribute toward any of it.
We weren't wealthy.
We were comfortable because we'd been careful.
That was different.
"He knows," I said.
She folded her towel in half and placed it on her knees.
"Then why would he do this?"
I didn't have an answer.
I wanted to say that he must have misunderstood something, that perhaps his girlfriend needed a place to stay and her brother was only visiting.
But Vern had been specific.
The brother was paying six hundred dollars a month.
That wasn't a weekend visit.
It was an arrangement.
I thought about calling the sheriff.
The idea came and went in less than a minute.
A deputy might tell me that someone paying money to stay in a home created a civil matter. I didn't know what rights the man might have, or what Brett might have told him.
I also knew our town.
There were about twenty-two hundred people living there, and the sheriff's activity often found its way into the local newspaper.
I wasn't eager to see my son's name printed beside a dispute at his parents' house.
Still, the thought had crossed my mind.
That bothered me almost as much as the call itself.
Ardis rested her hand on my arm.
"What are you going to do?"
I looked down at the phone beside my chair.
I could call Brett right then.
I could ask him to explain himself.
He would probably tell me that Vern had misunderstood, or that the basement arrangement was temporary, or that he was helping somebody who needed help.
Maybe he'd have an answer that made sense.
But if I warned him, he'd have time to prepare for our questions.
Two days.
Three days.
Long enough to clear the basement, move his girlfriend's things into a car, and tell us the whole story had been exaggerated.
I didn't want to argue with him over a phone.
I wanted to stand in front of him and hear what he had to say.
"I think we need to go home," I told Ardis.
She looked toward the pool.
Our chairs were still set up there, and her book was only halfway finished.
"All the way home?"
"Yes."
She considered that.
Then she stood and carried her towel inside.
"We should start packing, then."
There was no speech.
No accusation.
Just a decision.
I got up from the step and picked up my cold coffee.
For the first time since Vern had called, I felt certain about something.
We weren't staying until May.
We were going back to our house, and Brett was going to explain why strangers had begun treating it as his property.
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